I hear you: \u00a0“Reality shows are bad. The people who watch them are idiots.” Thus sayeth the Facebook commentators.<\/p>\n
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But wait a minute\u2026Really?<\/em>\u00a0 Are you including “The Amazing Race?” Because there is nothing tacky or foolish about demonstrating, season after televised season, that determination and tenacity are the twin sisters to success, and that “NEVER GIVE UP” are the three most important words in the English language\u2026well, second only to “Love One Another.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n For 12 exciting weeks on “The Amazing Race,” couples of many varieties (fathers and daughters, partners, husbands and wives, brothers, friends, etc.) compete against one another as they trek the far reaches of the globe to perform incredible feats of bravery, skill, and endurance. And each week, one couple is eliminated. But it is never whom you think.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The couple who is lagging behind\u2026hopelessly floundering in last place\u2026that couple quite frequently rallies to push to the front and handily edge out a cocky, “woop-woop” team who was oh-so-certain that they “had it in the bag.” \u00a0And every time this happens, I stand up and cheer!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I love people who don\u2019t give up. I love the man or woman, boy or girl who lives by my dad\u2019s favorite quote, “Quitters never win, and winners never quit.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The Beatles\u2019 entire career hung on that philosophy. It was their core value.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Think of the times they could have thrown up their hands and surrendered:<\/p>\n \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n When they failed the Carroll Levis “Search for the Stars” audition and were bested by Nicky Cuff\u2019s Sunnyside Skiffle Group.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When they glimpsed their pathetic lodgings in Hamburg\u2019s Bambi Kino and realized they were playing The Indra (not The Kaiserkeller), situated at the wrong end of the Grosse Freiheit. <\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When John lost Stu.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When they blew the New Year\u2019s Day Decca Audition.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When the EMI “audition” ended with George Martin\u2019s comment that he would opt for a studio drummer in recording scenarios.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When The Cavern fans punched George Harrison in the eye and shouted, “Ringo NEVER! Pete Forever!”<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When John\u2019s comment to Maureen Cleave about The Beatles\u2019 immense popularity eclipsing the popularity of Christianity led to death threats and Beatle burns.<\/em><\/p>\n <\/p>\n When Brain Epstein passed.<\/em><\/p>\n \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n I could go on and on\u2026and so could you. There were hundreds of times when The Beatles had “every reason on earth to be mad,” when they were entirely justified in saying, “That\u2019s it! We\u2019ve had enough! To hell with this shite!”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n But they didn\u2019t. They pushed on. They worked harder. They ignored vile people who said unfair things. They held their heads up and focused on the end of the race, not the temporary pain. They endured hard times and bad conditions. They took the punishment of “now” to get to the reward of “later.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Theirs was an Amazing Race. Across the globe. A feat of endurance. A pledge to keep trying, no matter what.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Theirs was the true reality show, and despite incredible odds, they emerged from a hungry pack of over 600 Merseyside skiffle groups to win the grand prize.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Like The Beatles, we can only be defeated if we surrender. Today, no matter what, let\u2019s take another step. Let\u2019s try again. Let\u2019s look ahead\u2026let\u2019s remind ourselves that when we think we\u2019ve nothing left, there is still<\/strong> a shred of something inside to push us across the finish line.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Never give up.<\/strong> That\u2019s an amazing mantra. In the reality show of life, it transforms everything.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jude Southerland Kessler is the author of the John Lennon Series:\u00a0www.johnlennonseries.com<\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jude is represented by 910 Public Relations — @910PubRel<\/a> on Twitter and 910 Public Relations<\/a>\u00a0on Facebook.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I hear you: \u00a0“Reality shows are bad. The people who watch them are idiots.” Thus sayeth the Facebook commentators. 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